Memorial Day

posted on 28th of may, 2012

I will admit it. Most Memorial Day's in my past I've taken advantage of the three day weekend and went camping, never giving the holiday much of a thought other than it was a holiday weekend.

The past few year's I've spent with my Father who served in Vietnam and watch proudly as he marched in the local parade with other veterans and listed to speeches by school children sponsored by the American Legion.

Typically these speeches come off kind of canned. (Kind of like the beginning of this blog). They typically are of the sort "I never thought much of the meaning behind Memorial Day blah blah".

Anyway the meaning of Memorial Day I get from my father is not so much to celebrate a soldier's service or sacrifice but to not forget the human cost of wars and to hold our politicians accountable and let them know that we won't stand putting our citizen's in danger unless it is the last resort.

There is typically a lot of "black and white" logic in the speeches made at these events. Things about "they served to protect our freedoms", but the reality is that most wars we fight are not so much about danger to our freedoms but danger to our interests, our businesses, our friends or perhaps a people who need help but certainly its never a black and white type of reason behind any war. The best we can hope for is that our armed forces understand why they are fighting.

As my son sang recently in seventh grade boy's chorus:

"Do you know what's worth fighting for?
When it's not worth dying for?

21 Guns - Green Day

This Memorial Day we went camping. We actually participated in an activity that we rely on our armed forces to protect. Our rights to enjoy life and feel safe. We did manage to visit an Revolutionary War battlefield on the way home, so it wasn't entirely a carefree Memorial Day.

Comments (8)

Posted by Peanutroaster on May 30, 2012
I was glad to see President Obama's Memorial Day speech where he welcomed home our Vietnam Vets who never received a proper welcome back from that unpopular war. My Dad joined the army to pay for college and ended up making a career out of it. On leave from a tour of Vietnam to come home to meet me for the first time, he recalls having to change out of his uniform at the airport so he won't risk being spat on.
Posted by Chanevy on May 30, 2012
Thank you for sharing. This touches my heart.
Posted by Laurasinelle on May 30, 2012
Thanks for sharing!
Posted by Kbkgraphx on May 30, 2012
They're singing Green Day in seventh grade choir? Oh boy. Things have really fallen since The Greatest Generation were in their prime.
Posted by Egomezta on May 29, 2012
Great blog.
Posted by Giannit on May 29, 2012
Great shot!
Posted by smartview27 on May 29, 2012
Thanks for sharing .
Posted by Celiaak on May 29, 2012
You're right. It's not all black or white logic.

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